from penny, apr. 13

hey.. a quick note today.  taking care of ellen is a busy busy job.  someday you'll be a grandma too.. i just know it.   i am struck by how many people refer to your strength .. its so true. you are amazingly strong and fierce. i've seen that in you so many times. you care about other people and their feelings so much.  keep fighting .. fight hard .. we are here to back you up and help you out... its payback time.. time for us to do things for you as you relearn to do them for yourself.   i can't wait to see you.  it will be soon...   much love, p